Lesson Three: Know your goal

What are you trying to achieve in your Children's Ministry?
What are you trying to achieve in your lesson / activities this week?
What are you aiming to achieve from this part of your time with the kids?

These are vital questions to answer before you get in front of the kids God has entrusted to you. If you don't know where you are going you won't know when you've achieved it and worse still you probably won't achieve what you would like to.

These are all part of planning and as much as this might be the "boring" bit about ministry it's also a vital part. What can John Wesley teach us? Let's see as we look at the third lesson I identified in my thesis "as a Little Child: Children in the Theology of John Wesley"

Lesson Three: Know your goal

It is here that we learn from how Wesley ensured that the goal of education as he saw it informed his educational views and dictated their implementation. That is to say, knowing the goal enabled him to decide what needed to be done and how it needed to be done. With this goal clearly in mind he could, and did, review progress towards its achievement, and he could hold others accountable for their actions having first ensured they were aware of the goal. Knowing the goal he was able to say, near the end of his life, that it was generally being achieved.

Furthermore, with his goal clear in his mind, Wesley was able to take those actions that would maximise the chances of success. In addition he was able to ensure that actions which could thwart his attempts to achieve the aim of education were avoided. For instance, having the goal clearly in mind enabled him to be resolute in waiting to find those teachers who possessed the required level of spirituality and the right motives rather than rushing to employ some who did not.

The same is true in the twenty-first century. Those called to ministry to children need to know the goal they are trying to reach if they are to achieve it having put in place the right activities, personnel and methodology. This is particularly the case where the availability of resources, both personnel and monetary, is limited or restricted. It is even more important if the aim is seen to be similar to that Wesley’s, that is, fitting children to be in right relationship with God both in this world and the next. With this as the goal of ministry to children those in children’s ministry must be focused in ensuring that the actions taken contribute positively to, and thereby maximise the chances of, its attainment. For example, doing as Wesley did and waiting to find ministry workers with the required level of spirituality and the right motives rather than rushing in to use those who happen to be available or, worse still, those who need to be coerced to work with God in his ministry to children.

Blessings

Pastor Pete